Bennett Yorgason on his special I Spy quilt |
Bennett and Grandma Joan |
His Grandma Joan and Great Grandma Jane gave this I Spy quilt to Bennett. This amazing child has been a source of joy and learning for the entire family.
Joan writes:
Bennett is a joyous blessing in our lives! Now that he is almost 22 months old, he has shown us how to embrace each other and fully enjoy the little of life, such as laughing, hugging and cheering on milestones. We all love the cheesy smiles and all-in-hugs. Even the younger babies in the family love him and want to be close to sweet Bennett. Watching Bennett devour a peanut butter and jelly sandwich is a sight to behold--pure joy! He was once videotaped in his sleep and his Aunt Jenny captioned the video, "Dreaming of PBJ's."
Four generations: Bennett, his mom Karen, Grandma Joan and Great Grandma Jane |
Shortly after Bennett's birth, our favorite nurse, Dallin, told us we wouldn't see him as a child with Down syndrome because we would just see Bennett. That is so true! Every child is unique and special. We have learned to use "child first language." This means we don't say "Down syndrome kids or the Down syndrome boy or girl." When using terms like that it implies that the child is defined by their syndrome or disability which is simply not true and may be limiting. Thanks to the Down syndrome community we have learned many helpful and powerful ways to interact with children. Child first language should be used with all children and also adults. A child may have a disability or syndrome but they are not that disability or syndrome.
This little "I Spy" quilt is a celebration of Bennett''s 22 months in our family. Paddington Bear is in the corners of the quilt and a Paddington story panel is on the back celebrating Benny Boo's love for peanut butter and jelly. Marilyn Mott donated fabric to The Duncan Project and almost all of the fabric for this quilt come from dear Marilyn's generous donation. Thank you Marilyn!
I have been around Bennett a few times. He just exudes light and love. Tons of love in the stitches for Benny Boo.
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